Giving birth during the coronavirus? Here’s what to know, mama.

Giving Birth during the coronavirus? Here's what you need to know, mama.

(This was an article Hehe wrote originally for Motherly, you can view the full article HERE.

Pregnancy brings so many questions, but giving birth during a pandemic can be plain overwhelming. It likely seems as if your questions are never-ending, and the more answers you get, the more questions come up.

There is likely so much on your mind right now:

Will I need to give birth without my partner?

Will I have limited pain relief options?

Am I going to be separated from my baby?

It's so much to think about, and it can feel scary.

As you think about your birth, one of your biggest fears is likely a sense of having a lack of control throughout this process. Mama, you are not alone. Thousands of couples are in the same boat, and I want to share some ways to cope with this shift. For HeHe's advice and support for those feeling anxious about their pregnancy and upcoming birth, please see the full article here.

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