Eating for The Trimesters
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Hey Tranquility Tribe! Do you ever feel
crazily overwhelmed by all of the opinions that everyone seems to have about
diet, workouts, and weight loss? The world of weight and exercise can be
filled with frustration and disappointment, especially in a time when newsfeeds
are constantly flooded with images that only portray the most perfect sides of
people’s lives. Today, Hehe talks to Lainey Younkin, a dietician, about
body positivity and what you should truly be focusing on before, during, and
after pregnancy.
Who is Lainey?
Lainey Younkin, whose nickname is “the dietician
who doesn’t put people on diets”, is a nutritionist in Boston who takes an
honest and realistic approach to helping her clients live a healthy lifestyle.
Rather than putting clients on diets that often only yield the desired
results in the short-term and can make you feel guilty about eating, Lainey
helps her clients make gradual, more sustainable adjustments that allow them to
live healthier lives in the long-term.
What to eat when you’re expecting
As both Hehe and Lainey point out, the most
important thing, whether or not you are pregnant, is to listen to your body.
You know yourself best, and your body will tell you what it needs. That
means that if you’re hungry, you need to eat! Although it can be easy to
compare your diet and weight to those of the people around you, everybody’s
body is different, so the amount of food you need on a daily basis will be
different too. And this goes for nutrition apps and calorie counting as
well! Your activity level will vary from day to day, and therefore the amount
that you need to eat will too. Lainey encourages her clients to shift their
focus from the number on the scale to their internal hunger scale in order to
help them reach their goals while making sure that they give their bodies what
they need.
Lainey explains that most people eat for one of
three reasons. You may eat because you physically feel hungry; if that’s
the case, you’re listening to your hunger scale - keep it up! On the other
hand, you may eat because you are craving a certain food, not necessarily
because you’re hungry. Sometimes, no
matter how hard you try, you can’t combat that craving. And if that’s the case, Lainey says you
should eat the food that you are craving, but do so mindfully. The third reason that many people eat is
because they feel stressed and they use food as a source of comfort. If this sounds familiar to you, Lainey advises
finding the root of the stress – once you address why you are feeling upset and
find other methods for dealing with stress, it will be easier to decrease your
stress-eating.
If you are trying to get pregnant, Lainey’s
biggest piece of advice is to make sure that you have enough folic acid in your
diet. Folic acid is extremely important
for neural tube development, which starts very early in pregnancy! During your first trimester, you should
continue to take folic acid and also begin to focus on getting enough omega-3s,
which help with the development of your new baby’s brain. Salmon is a great source of omega-3, and if
you are worried that you aren’t getting enough, you can always take a
multivitamin too! Many women have
cravings for a lot of carbs during the first trimester; if you find yourself
craving carbs, Lainey recommends trying to go for healthier options such as
sweet potato fries or whole wheat bread so that you can get as much nutrition
from your food as possible. But you
don’t have to make the switch immediately – start slowly and transition to
healthier options as you go.
Going into the second trimester, you may find
yourself getting hungrier than normal – this is your hunger scale telling you
that your body needs more calories! In
addition to eating more, it’s also important to focus on getting enough iron
and vitamin D. And as you move into your
third trimester, you’ll need even more calories as well as more iron, because
your baby will start storing iron to use during their first few months of
life. Lainey recommends getting lots of
vitamin C as well, as that will help your body absorb iron.
Postpartum health
Immediately after your birth, Lainey recommends
setting up a meal train or having others help you prepare meals, because you
will have less energy and time to cook but getting the calories that your body
needs is extremely important to help your body heal. This is especially important if you are
breastfeeding; the food that you eat is fuel for both you and your baby, so you
will need lots of extra calories! One
trick that Lainey shared is to make sure that you find portable foods such as
string cheese, nuts, or dried fruit that you can have with you at all
times.
In our society, there are many unrealistic
expectations surrounding weight during the postpartum period. In reality, everybody’s body and birth
experiences are different, and your own body will be different than it was before
your birth. As Lainey has learned from
her work, many people gain around 25-35 pounds during pregnancy, lose 10-20
pounds during the few months after, and then feel stuck and unable to lose more
weight. But Lainey points out that your
postpartum period is not the time to diet or to be stressed about weight – you
may not get back to your pre-pregnancy weight, and that’s okay! Your body grew and carried a tiny human,
which is an incredible accomplishment as well as a big change, so it may take
some time to get reacquainted with your postpartum self. Rather than worrying about the number on the
scale, Lainey recommends focusing on eating a nutritious diet for yourself and
your baby, allowing your body to rest and heal, and then getting into an
exercise routine that can help you destress and feel healthy. And if you really feel stuck or unhappy with
your body, reach out for help! There are
countless resources, including Lainey, who can help you find a healthy,
balanced lifestyle and build up your body positivity.
Lainey’s postpartum
journey
As Lainey points out, it’s extremely important
to talk about the struggles that come during the postpartum period in order to
combat those unrealistic expectations – you may feel like you’re suffering
alone, but in reality there are many others who are going through very similar
experiences! Lainey shares that she had
a very difficult weight journey after she had her baby. Throughout her pregnancy, she went from 145
pounds to 176 pounds, and then got back down to 155 pounds a few months after
her pregnancy. At that point she felt a
little stuck, so she started to focus more on exercise by doing at-home
workouts. These workouts, which were
focused on strength and cardio, helped her feel stronger and she lost five more
pounds. She also started running and was
able to get back down to 145 pounds, but then she broke her toe and gained some
of the weight back. She expected that
she would have more luck losing weight after she stopped breastfeeding, but
that didn’t happen. Although she is
still struggling with her weight, now she is focusing more on maintaining a
healthy life and adjusting her body image to feel more positive about her
postpartum body!
If you want to learn more about Lainey and get
involved with her one-on-one coaching or her group workshops, you can find her
at laineyyounkin.com or on Instagram at @laineyyounkin!
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